Tough situation with both people still in love - please advise.?

listen baby everyone has a first love and thinks that they can never get over it but you can. your situation is very hard no doubt but this is usually what happens to young love you grow up and apart. you will always love him but you got to remember if you are hurting with him hurt without him and work on getting on with your life. ITS HARD IT REALLY IS but you will look back in a few years or when you meet someone else and realize that EVERY THING HAPPENS FOR A REASON REALLY! i had a first love kind of yanked apart due to him joining the marines and a prejudice family situation. I thought i would die without him i really did i couldnt sleep eat nothing. the main thing to remember is if it is meant to be it will be. we have now been apart for 22 years i still remember him but i have been with someone else 17 of those years. see i was with the other guy 5yrs he was my first love and we were always going to be together but were not that doesnt mean i never loved or cared for him but it just wasnt meant to be and sometimes you have to go the fork in the road.not understanding now why but know the answer will come. being in college for most peeps in a relationship is hard enough with all the peer pressure and going to party etc if your at the same college let alone being at a different one. remember baby girl you only get treated how you allow yourself to be treated and never make someone in your life a priority when all you are is a choice to them. gather friends go out enjoy this part of your life you will love again and if the relationship your in is meant to be it will be now or down the line. destiny is destiny if you believe in that focus on friends going out studying keep yourself busy as you can dont go to places that remind you of him or listen to music that may remind you of him not at first anyway. whatever you decide dont wait years to do something that could be done now. pray and believe that something else is planned for you and cherish the time you did have with him that may have been the time you were given and now you have to let go. the situation doesnt sound good and it may interfere with your school work do you baby and if you need to talk set up a post again. he may love you too but cant make the move from you either but your both going to be unhappy either way atleast if you end it the hurt will eventually fade if not you will continue to go down a path of sadness your just prolonging the enevitable. it will hurt but i PROMISE it gets better k smile love and live your wonderful life everyday. remember the saying if you love something set it free if it returns it was meant to be.